Caroline's story

I had a lumpectomy, chemotherapy and radiotherapy. At the time, my 3 children were very young, and my surgery was actually scheduled on my daughter’s 9^th birthday.

Being diagnosed was a massive shock.  I got through with support from friends, family, and colleagues. I felt no pressure from my team to go back to work until I was ready. My husband was my rock. I had my treatment just after COVID, so he couldn’t come in for any of my sessions. But he drove me there every week and waited outside for 3 to 4 hours until I was done as he wanted to be nearby for any support.

We were totally honest with the kids

We waited to tell the kids until we knew exactly what my treatment plan was and when it was going to happen, so we could give them all the information we had. We were totally honest with them about the diagnosis. My nurse gave me a book called “Mummy’s Lump”, which wasn’t the best bedtime story, but actually was really good for youngest, to help her understand.

Early detection saves lives

1 in 7 women will be affected by breast cancer. Everyone should be checking their boobs regularly. Knowing what’s different for your body and to push for answers when something doesn’t feel right. I would check my breasts regularly, so when I felt a lump, I knew something had changed. I was told before my diagnosis that ‘it may be a cyst’ and ‘it’s probably nothing’. Early detection saves lives.

Now I volunteer for Breast Cancer Now

I volunteer for the Someone Like Me service. I make 3 to 4 calls a week, speaking to those going through breast cancer. I find it really rewarding to chat to others and being able to give something to people in their darkest times.

Having a ball for wear it pink

As I volunteer for Breast Cancer Now, I'd seen photos from the wear it pink campaign and wanted to be part of it. So, at the end of October, I’m organising a wear it pink ball at our local cricket club for 150 people. There will be a raffle, along with a DJ, lots of dancing and bingo. We are going to make it a fun night.

My top tips for wear it pink

My top tip would be to have fun. Any event no matter how big or small will help make a difference. Raise funds and awareness and get the message out there.